IF THE ONLY PRAYER YOU SAID IN YOUR LIFE WAS "THANK YOU", THAT WOULD SUFFICE. ~Meister Eckhart

Friday, October 7, 2005

10.07.05

"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being." -Goethe

Today I am grateful...
  • for Randall, who turns 48 today and has stood with me and by my side since we met on September 10, 1983
  • that Ran and I have both survived our addictions
  • that if you look hard enough you can find the joy written between the lines of pain
  • that I miss the presence of Chester, and in missing him I find the joyous memories
  • that today the pains of all the yesterdays are in the past
  • for friends and loved ones like you, who sent their condolences along with their strength and hope, their courage and love, in comments here, telephone calls, emails and cards. I am in total gratitude to you all.

"Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with." - Mark Twain

"The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?" - Henry David Thoreau

"A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself." Josh Billings

5 comments:

dAAve said...

even though i've never met him, tell Randall happy birthday from me

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday to Randall. I know how very special he is. He is also someone I would want as a "phone a friend" if I were to ever be on Millionaire. He is one of those kind of ppl that knows a little bit about everything. I reckon since it's his b-day he can have several lobsters huh? LOL

Lisa

BarbaraFromCalifornia said...

Happy birhday to Randall....

I am thinking about you and sending you all good thoughts for today...sorry I missed you yesterday..When I finish this brief, I'll send you an email...

I think the love from a dog is truly a great gift...

Shannon said...

Good Morning and Happy Friday!
Happy B-day to your friend Randall :)

Have a fantastic day!

Trudging said...

Happy Birthday to Randall! Grief stinks but it is part of life on life's terms. You show such grace.